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“The one who trusts in himself is a fool, but one who walks in wisdom will be safe.” — Proverbs 28:26
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Are you willing to pay the price and ask others tough questions? Being on staff with FCA, I have the opportunity to spend time with amazing ministry, sports and business leaders from around the world. My goal is to be a sponge around them and ask as many questions as possible. Asking the tough questions produces powerful insights, but most people try to impress others by talking the entire time. Very few athletes and coaches maximize the opportunity to do what life-learners always do: Ask Questions. Be Quiet. Listen. Take Notes.
Asking the right questions in the right way at the right time helps to surface what’s really going on. The best leaders are skilled at asking the tough questions that reveal the truth. But very few people know how or are willing to go there.
God wants us to examine ourselves. The Bible is loaded with verses that challenge us to look within our soul in order to solidify our faith. Our faith in Jesus Christ is our foundation, and we must always make sure there aren’t any cracks. Asking the tough questions forces us to look under every rock and make sure we are not hiding or covering anything up. Paul reminds us of this truth:
Take the test! Here is one test that every leader at every level needs to take if they want to get better. These 10 questions will help you get beneath the surface. As you read through each question, take some time to let them penetrate your soul before you rush to the next one. Moms, dads, students, coaches, athletes, businessmen, teachers and pastors need to take this test!
10 Tough Questions Leaders Must Ask:
- Do I realize it is impossible to glorify Christ and myself at the same time? (Lead with humility)
- Do I lead to win over people or to win souls? (Lead with purpose)
- Am I doing the things I am asking others to do? (Lead with integrity)
- Do I pray as if nothing of eternal value will happen in the lives of others unless God does it? (Lead with prayer)
- Am I touching the hearts of those I lead? (Lead with transformation)
- What’s it like to be on the other side of me? (Lead with authenticity)
- Do others experience God’s love through me? (Lead with love)
- Am I making others better around me? (Lead with serving)
- Do I seek personal gain through people I lead or serve them like Christ served the church? (Lead with sacrifice)
- Am I allowing my leadership to produce the fruit of the Spirit in others? (Lead with excellence)
Let God ask you tough questions. Let God have complete access to your heart and allow Him to ask you tough questions. He wants to continue to get to the heart of the matter and form you into the image of Jesus Christ.
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- Do you ask yourself tough questions? If so, what questions?
- When answering the 10 questions, how was the Lord speaking to you?
- Which areas need some extra examination? Ask the Lord to reveal His truth into each area.
- Commit to becoming a great question asker. Learn the art of asking the right questions.
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